Best Sex Positions With Anal Toys

Anal play is an avenue of sexual exploration that's gaining steam. Many are curious about how anal toys can spice up intimacy. Many are discovering the bedroom benefits they bring.
Before trying new things, don’t be shy to discuss your fantasies and boundaries with your partner. With the perfect anal toy and proper usage, you could unlock sensations you and your partner never felt before.

Having Sex With Anal Toys (How and Why)

These toys aren't just a fad. They are made to stimulate sensitive nerve endings, like the prostate for individuals with one, and the rich nerve network around the anal area. When you stimulate these spots, you're in for an entirely thrilling sensation!

Now, the thrill isn't just physical either. For many, there's a psychological zing in stepping outside the norm. Doing something a little naughty or daring can be very exciting.

Make a smart choice for a fun experience and comfort when starting out. Size matters here, and so does shape. Make a smart choice for a fun experience.

Doggy Style

This style is a classic because it's reliable. A versatile position that gets even better complemented by toys designed for anal. When you desire to tickle the G-spot or prostate, this position offers deep penetration and the perfect angle to make each moment feel so incredible!

New to this? Use a pillow under your hips as you give it a try. It's not only for comfort but it also helps with alignment. One of the best things about doggy style is the control it gives you. You can dictate the depth and speed of penetration, making things simpler to adapt to the additional stimulus

Cowgirl

When you're thinking of changing things up, the cowgirl position puts the receiving partner in control. You decide how deep and fast you want to go in this position.

Now, try leaning back a bit—yes, just like that. Feel different? It should. Changing the angle can hit all sorts of pleasure points you weren't even aware were there. And if leaning back is good, leaning forward potentially rocks your world.
Synchronize your movements with your partner for a duo performance that could deserve a standing ovation. Communicate, find a rhythm that works for both of you, and then ride that wave together.

Missionary

Missionary is also a classic! A few tweaks can even transform it into an exciting playground for your anal toys. Start by grabbing a couple of pillows or props to elevate your hips. Try the "butterfly position" where you prop your legs up higher, perhaps resting them on your partner's shoulders. This variation allows for that oh-so-satisfying deeper penetration.

One of the sweetest parts of missionary is the face-to-face contact. Lock eyes with your partner, and you'll find intimacy that amplifies every sensation. Adding a toy designed for anal while in missionary will feel like a breeze for your partner. Trust us! Whether it's a slender plug or a vibe that hits right on target, you can easily manage insertion and control without missing a beat.

And while you're enjoying the depth and connection, don't hesitate to engage with a little multitasking. Incorporate clitoral or penile stimulation to stoke the fires even more.

Spooning

This is the go-to position for many couples looking for comfort and closeness. It's a great choice for beginners doing anal. In this position, the 'big spoon' — that's you, when in charge of penetrating — have the perfect reach. Your arm can effortlessly wrap around your partner, allowing you to stimulate their front genitals with your hand. At the same time, you can gently introduce an anal toy from behind. You will get to experience both pleasures.

Cuddle up, go slow, and let this warm embrace lead you to new shared pleasure.

Best Toys to Use During Sex

Think small butt plugs or if you're new to this experience. These are great because they're not scary, and you can find them in sizes that won't make you uncomfortable.

Using a vibrating anal toy can make things even better. They add extra stimulation for stronger orgasms. So, don't shy away from toys with a power button.

Prostate massagers hit the spot for a unique pleasure you should try. Make sure to go with a trusted design that's made for enjoyable  stimulation.

Always pick safety-conscious toys designed with a flared base. A flared base guarantees your toy stays where you want it, making retrieval a no-sweat situation. And remember to factor in the material. Silicone is soft, flexible, and always reliable. Many pleasure toys are made from silicone, too. Glass embodies a sleek and smooth feel, tailored for those who crave firmness. And metal allows you to experiment with temperature changes during play. Try different materials to see which one makes you feel pleasure.

Tips and Techniques

A technique you'll want to get friendly with is 'tipping'. Insert the toy's tip gently, then pull it out slightly and repeat. It's like trying things out gradually can reduce discomfort.

Ready to add some excitement? Small circular motions or gentle thrusting multiple levels of pleasure. These movements can stimulate in ways that straight-up-and-down just can't match.

The mind has a significant impact, where trusting your partner can make the experience much better. It's about embracing vulnerability and openness, which can bring an additional layer of intimacy. This openness extends to communication, which is crucial. Sharing openly with your partner about what works and what doesn't and those "oh, please do that again" moments essentially gives them the cheat code to your pleasure.

Incorporating Anal Play into Foreplay and Build-up

Foreplay is the ideal moment to introduce anal play, layering in an increased arousal level and expectation. Think of it as getting things ready.

Think of it as setting the stage for a show-stopping performance where every act is more thrilling than the last. This approach enriches the foreplay, making the build-up to the main play even more electrifying.

Start with a light touch. External stimulation like rimming or a soft, circling massage around the anus can give you a wave of enticing shivers just at the thought of penetration. This sort of play teases the senses, coaxing your body into eager anticipation.

Stay tuned in to your body or your partner's signals. Being present and responsive ensures that everyone stays comfortable, connected, and cruising towards an unforgettable climax.

ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Simone Brooks

A Southern-based author brings clarity to the intimate world of sex toys, focusing on user-friendly guides and reviews for dildos and nipple toys. Drawing from her past as an educator, she crafts content that enlightens and equips her readers, making the exploration of pleasure accessible to all. Beyond writing, she finds solace in nurturing her garden and roaming the countryside with her favorite dogs, where she gathers inspiration for her work.

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