Long Dildos
A long dildo is considered long if it's over 7 inches in length, and the average girth is around 4.5 to 5 inches in circumference. We have 7 to 8 inch, 9 to 10 inch available, along with 11 to 14 inch dildos.
You might've raised an eyebrow or felt a twinge of intimidation at the sight of one, which is perfectly natural. New to big toys, or just curious? This guide is for you. We'll show you why they're awesome.
Forget limitations. Long dildos come in all shapes, sizes and feels, for everyone to enjoy.
These toys are for anyone who wants them. Whether for deeper satisfaction, specific fantasies, or even therapeutic reasons, these dildos have a place for many.
The Ergonomic Advantage
Imagine a comfortable grip that lets you navigate with precision. Long dildos help with grip, not just show. More length means easier control.
Masturbation is all about being in control. You can easily adjust angles, pressure, and speed without needing a break to shake off a cramp in your wrist. Masturbation should be all about relaxation and enjoyment.
Partnered play gets a boost from these pleasure tools too. They allow for a more relaxed posture and less strain on whoever's using it. You can focus on the connection with your partner. In this case, it's all about ease of use.
But how does a long dildo compare to shorter toys? They have their place, but when it comes to control, they can leave you wishing for just a little more... reach.
So, how do you make the most of this added length? Start experimenting with different grips to find the most comfortable one. Use the length to explore different strokes and rhythms.
Enhanced Sensation and Satisfaction
When you're looking for something new, the sheer length of these toys could be what you've been craving. They reach deep erogenous zones, massaging against your G-spot or prostate for toe-curling orgasms. A larger toy is thrilling. It's exciting to try something new and feel powerful.
Comparing a long dildo to a real penis? They're different beasts. While they may share a common shape, the sensations they offer vary greatly. A real penis has the warmth and texture of a living body, with all its subtle movements and nuances. This long toy, on the other hand, brings a consistent, unwavering presence that can be manipulated to your exact liking. Plus, they never get tired—talk about endurance!
There's a concept of fullness and stretching that a lot of people love. Intense pleasure comes from feeling completely full and stretched, a primal mix of giving in and being in control.
And the big O? We can't forget that. A long dildo can give you different types of orgasms, ones that are more intense from the deep stimulation. Heightened arousal, stronger pelvic contractions, and that glorious wave of release.
Versatility in Sexual Exploration
When you're thinking of buying a long dildo, remember the vast possibilities it opens up. They aren't just about size but about experiencing new, intense sensations.
First off, let's get this straight—this pleasure toy is versatile. They're not exclusive to one type of play or another. Whether you're into vaginal or anal play, it can cater to both. You can experiment with depths and angles that may have been out of reach before, making your solo or partnered sessions even more dynamic.
Temperature play, anyone? Imagine the shivers down your spine as a cooled long toy makes contact or the warmth spreading through your body from a heated one. These toys heat up or cool down for an extra kick during playtime.
If you're into BDSM, a long dildo might be your new favorite toy. It can become a tool for dominance or submission, adding a physical dimension to your psychological play. And let's not forget the visual impact—a long pleasure probe can be quite the statement piece in your scenario.
Lastly, it's important to highlight the inclusivity of long dildos. They're for everyone, regardless of gender or sexual orientation. They're a celebration of diversity and a tool for exploration that can be enjoyed across sexual identities.
This goes beyond size! It's about getting creative and having fun (anywhere you like).
Physical Therapy and Health Benefits
When you think of long dildos, physical therapy is definitely something that doesn't spring to mind. Yet, these toys can play a crucial role in medicine. These can help with vaginismus (muscle tightness) by allowing for gradual stretching.
Some OBGYN recommend these for pelvic floor exercises. They help strengthen muscles and improve elasticity, which is great for women's health, especially after childbirth.
Taking it slow is key. Start with the smallest size that feels comfy and work your way up gradually.
Material matters. For therapy, pick non-porous, body-safe materials like silicone. These clean easier and are gentler. Size is personal, so start small and comfy. The size should match your comfort level, gradually increasing as you progress.
Material Matters: Finding the Right Long Dildo
Choosing a long dildo? Material matters. Let's compare silicone, glass, and metal. Each brings something unique to the table, and understanding these differences will help you make a choice that feels right. Silicone is soft and safe, feels natural against your skin, but attracts lint and pet hair. Keep it clean.
Glass dildos are smooth and strong perfect for comfort and deep stimulation. Metal dildos are the heavyweight champs. They offer a sense of fullness and pressure that's hard to beat, and they're champions at holding temperature. Durability? Check. But they might not be the first choice for dildo newbies—metal is unyielding and can be quite heavy.
Now, let's talk about choosing the right firmness and flexibility. Think about what you enjoy—do you want something that can move with you, or do you crave that solid, unchanging pressure? Your preferences are key here.
Silicone often thrives with a hot bath or a spin in the dishwasher, but always confirm the best cleaning method for your toy.
Overcoming the Intimidation Factor
Long dildos got you worried? Relax, we'll get you started right. Beginners? Start simple. It's your adventure, learn at your own pace.
When it's time to take the next step, remember the golden rule: lubrication is important. Lube up! More is better for smooth sailing and happy times.
Start slow, go deeper as it feels good. Do what makes you feel comfortable. If it feels good, continue; if not, it's perfectly okay to pause and try another time.
Mentally preparing is also key. Set the scene in a way that makes you feel relaxed and safe. Light some candles, play your favorite tunes, or enjoy the silence. Clear your head of expectations and focus on the sensations. Remember, this experience is about exploring and enjoying your body.
And finally, always listen to your body and respect its limits. Discomfort? Stop and do not force yourself. Trust yourself, and remember that you can always try again another day.
Long Dildos in Partner Play
When it comes to trying something new in your bedroom activities with a partner, introducing a long dildo might just be what you've been missing. They can enhance mutual pleasure and intimacy.
Firstly, for those craving more — more depth, more sensation — it can fulfill this desire for deeper penetration. And let's not forget the visual excitement it can add to your play. Watching your partner in a state of bliss can be incredibly arousing and deepen the connection between you.
Let's talk about power play. A long dildo can introduce an exciting element of control. One of you can take charge, guiding the toy in a rhythm that teases and pleases, while the other experiences a thrilling release of control.
Long Dildos and the LGBTQ+ Community
For many transgender and non-binary folks, the journey of self-discovery and expression extends into the bedroom. Here, long dildos can play a crucial role. Dildos can make you feel awesome about yourself. Pick ones that make you happy.
Let's talk about exploration. These long pleasure buddies open up a lot of possibilities, allowing you to explore your body in new and fulfilling ways. Whether it's about discovering what feels good or affirming your gender identity, these toys can be a supportive partner in your journey.
In same-sex couples, these pleasure toys are a must. They bring something new to intimacy, enabling partners to experience deeper connection and pleasure. And let's not forget the practical side—more length can mean hitting just the right spots, making every moment count.
Sizing Up
Sizing up to a long dildo is all about a steady pace and patience. You want a bigger size? It's normal and achievable. Relax. Take a deep breath. Remember, your body is capable of amazing things, and yes, that includes accommodating a long dildo comfortably. Takes time, but it's possible.
Think of it as consistent practice - your body needs time to adjust new sizes. Start small, go slow, and listen to your body.
Lastly, let's address that persistent whisper of a concern: "Will I get too stretched out?" Here's the deal – muscles are incredible and have this nifty feature called elasticity. They can stretch and return to their usual size, like a good pair of jeans after a day's wear. So, as long as you're not going from zero to a hundred daily, your body will maintain its ability to snap back.
Health Considerations and Risks
When it comes to long dildos—or any sex toys for that matter—safety should never be an afterthought. You're not just seeking pleasure; you're also taking care of your health.
First off, always opt for body-safe materials. Safe options: medical-grade silicone, glass, or metal. Easy to clean too.
Clean your toy regularly with soap and water to avoid infections, especially if shared. Check the instructions for special cleaners for certain materials.
But accidents happen, right? Don't just power through if you find yourself in a painful situation. Stop the show and assess. If you have lasting pain, see a doctor.
Lastly, there's a bit of an art to safe depth play. A long dildo can reach new depths, but you've got to respect the anatomy. There's a roadmap back there, and you need to follow it. Avoid going in too deep or too fast. Get to know the layout of your own body, and if you're unsure, do a little research or talk to a sex educator.
Enhancing Comfort and Pleasure With Lube
Lube — it's important for a smooth and enjoyable experience with your long dildo. Let's break down the types of lube you can choose from. There's water-based, compatible with all materials and easy to clean up. Silicone-based lubricants last longer and are perfect for those long sessions. Be cautious if your toy is silicone; they might not play nicely together. Then there's oil-based, which is durable and silky but not the best friend of latex condoms or certain toy materials.
The role of lube goes beyond just making things slippery; it's essential for your comfort and overall pleasure. Without it, you might find the experience more friction than fun — nobody wants that.
Now, don't forget to reapply! During extended play, your lube might start to dry up or get absorbed, and the last thing you want is to hit a dry patch. Keep that bottle handy, and don't be shy to pause for a quick top-up.
When applying lube, cover both the surface of the dildo and your own intimate areas. A good layer on the toy ensures it glides effortlessly while lubing up yourself, making for a comfortable and enjoyable encounter. And here's a pro tip — if you're playing with a partner, make it part of the foreplay. It can be as fun as it is functional.
Finally, steer clear from desensitizing lubricants. Sure, they might promise extended play without discomfort, but they can mask important signals from your body. You want to feel every sensation to ensure you're not pushing your limits. After all, pleasure is about enjoyment, not endurance tests.
