Ejaculation: The Hands-Free Way
Here’s a fun fact: Did you know that men who averaged 4.6 to seven ejaculations a week were 36% less likely to be diagnosed with prostate cancer before the age of 70 than men who ejaculated less than 2.3 times a week on average?
Good news, right? Apparently the more you blow your load, the better for your health! And speaking of blowing a load, some men might automatically think they need the help of a partner or a pair of hands to do so.
What if we tell you that you can do that without the assistance of anyone?
Yes, you heard that right, chief! You can actually ejaculate without using your hand or somebody else’s!
Think hands free but for your penis! If you’re interested to know how you can actually achieve this, hang tight because we are about to knock your socks off!
Ejacu-what?
For some guys out there, they know only about ejaculation in the external, physical sense but don’t necessarily care for what happens inside their bodies.
We all know ejaculation involves the release of semen following a guy’s orgasm. However, there is more to it than meets the eye!
When a guy is in the process of ejaculating, the semen and sperm that have mixed together are squeezed into his urethra through muscle contraction. This leads the sticky and milky semen to come out of penis in about three or four squirts.
In the process of masturbating, it’s important for guys to ejaculate after. And when ejaculation is on the brink of happening, it not advisable to stop it at all.
When you try to cover the end of the penis, it would lead to what we call “retrograde ejaculation”. This means that the semen would go back up the urethra, leading it to enter the bladder or the prostate gland.
While retrograde ejaculation does not affect your ability to have an erection, your chances of developing male infertility and having less pleasurable orgasms are higher.
What Are the Benefits?
There is more to ejaculation than just beating your meat. Apart from sexual gratification, there are actually health benefits! Now that’s what we call...WINNING!
Some of the most common benefits include:
- Reduced risk of prostate cancer.
- Relieving stress.
- Boosting your mood.
- Helps you to sleep better.
- General relaxation.
- Releasing sexual tension.
- Helping you have better sex.
- Understanding your own wants and needs better.
No Hands? No Problem!
Men the world over can now reach peak sexual satisfaction without even using their hands at all!
If you are curious as to what needs to be done to achieve this and more, it is actually quite simple and achievable. It’s just a matter of taking your time and committing yourself to the process 100%.
Say Sayonara To Your Old Habits
Old habits are usually hard to shake off but if you want to experience the mind-blowing experience of a hands-free ejaculation, you should learn the art of letting go of your old masturbation habits.
By getting rid of the routine you have been so used to, you just might find yourself discovering new and creative ways to enhance your ejaculation techniques.
Discover Your Sweet, Sensitive Spots
One of the key factors in achieving a hands-free orgasm is to be able to focus and take advantage of the most sensitive parts of our penis.
Explore and find out which parts are most sensitive as these are vital in reaching hands-free orgasm.
Try gently running your fingertips all over your penis to observe which parts are the most sensitive.
Some of the most sensitive parts that you should probably try exploring are the head of the penis and the underside of the head.
Toys For The Big Boys
Once you have taken note of your most sensitive parts, you now have to learn the best ways to stimulate them. And one of the things that you can do is to check out the various male sex toys available in the market today.
Choose those that can stimulate your prostate and/or penis and achieve that hands-free ejaculation that you have been eyeing.
All Day, Every Day
For some lucky men out there, they are fortunate enough to be able to achieve hands-free ejaculation by just flexing their Pubococcygeus Muscle (PC).
With minimal movements of their frenulum or corona against their thigh or stomach or by twitching their penis, they are able to blow their load with no problem!
If you are not blessed to have this gift, you can still achieve this by doing Kegel exercises, also referred to as pelvic floor muscle training exercises.
Kegel exercises are not only for women but are for men as well!
When guys practice these kind of exercises, they should target the pelvic floor muscles, also called the Pubococcygeus Muscle (PC).
Strengthening your PC is one of the first steps in achieving hands-free ejaculation.
You can start by locating where your PC is. Spotting where it is found is actually pretty easy.
The next time you start peeing (standing up of course), try stopping and holding the rest of your pee. The muscles you used to stop the pee from flowing are your PC muscles.
Once you have located your PC, strengthen it by doing the following:
Tightening and holding your PC for about five seconds
Relaxing our PC. It is ideal that you do about 10 to 20 Kegel exercises three to four time daily.
Squeezing the muscles found in your anus and relaxing after each try
Erotic/Orgasmic Meditation
Who would have thought that a technique that focuses on relaxation and calmness can be used to achieve hands-free ejaculation?
Well never underestimate the power of our minds! Here are simple erotic meditation steps that you can try!
- Start off by finding a place where you can be free from any distractions including electronic devices. Adjust the temperature in the room so you won’t get too hot or too cold.
- Get comfy. Find the best position that works for you. You can either lie down or sit up. It’s all up to you actually!
- Close your eyes and let go of any unwelcome thoughts! It’s important that you are able to concentrate 100%. Be present!
- Focus on the air entering and leaving your body. Also, be in tune with yourself and exactly how you feel.
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Once you are relaxed, try visualizing your own body. Focus on the body - the way it looks on the inside and outside. Also, envision the way your bodies energy looks. Try to focus on the different physical sensations.
The more aware you are of your body and its sensations, the more intense your perception is. The more heightened your awareness is, the more sexually excited you will become.
Prostate Assisted Ejaculation
The prostate is an important part of a guy's reproductive system as it secretes one of the most important components of semen which is prostate fluid.
If you don't know what and where your prostate gland is, well we will give you some hints. Do note though that the location of one guy's prostate can differ from another guy's.
Normally the size of a walnut, it can be usually be found after poking around the area between your testicles and anus.
As the spot where you usually poke around is somehow connected to the penis, you will actually feel some sort of immense pleasure! If you are keen to try prostate play but the idea of having fingers up your ass makes you a little nervous, don’t worry there, brother!
There is another way for you to achieve the desired pleasure and orgasm! You don’t even have to touch your penis.
It’s all through the stimulation of your perineum!
If you feel like there is nothing holding you back and you want to take things to the next level, then it’s high time you take advantage of prostate play!
To be able to orgasm through your prostate is about being able to know the best stimulation methods that would work for you!
Here are some simple steps that you can do to achieve a prostate assisted orgasm!
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Clean up and Chill: Before you start, it’s important to wash up and keep yourself clean. As it can get a little messy down there, perhaps you can try douching.
This would flush out all the unwanted elements that you could possibly get in contact with once you start prostate play. Once done, treat yourself to a warm bath or shower to help you relax and chill.
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Don’t forget the lube: Stock up on your favourite lube because you are going to need it! Now that is not meant to scare you but rather to prepare you for the good things to come!
As our asses aren’t exactly designed for penetration (not that it’s going to stop us anyway), it is important that you are able to get yourself ready!
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Arouse yourself: For newbies to the art of prostate play, finding the prostate might become some sort of treasure hunt!
One of the best ways to easily find this little bugger is when you get aroused. The prostate gland swells when you are in the mood!
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Get comfy: If you are about to do your prostate play solo, find the most comfortable sexual position for you! You can try the following for starters:
a. Lying on your side.
b. Squatting.
c. Lying down with your legs up in the air.
d. Sitting on a comfortable chair.
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Go in easy: If you are about to start your prostate play, don’t rush it! To start with, you can put one of your fingers into your ass.
Please do it gently! Once you’ve got that finger in the opening, don’t forget to breathe - inhale! Once you are about to exhale, push your sphincter muscles out to let your finger in easily.
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Target identified: Once you’ve got your finger in, try moving it around two inches above your rectum, a bit towards your scrotum. Try wiggling your finger around to be able to find your prostate.
Once you come across something that resembles the size of a walnut or chestnut, you’ve hit the jackpot. BINGO!
- Now the next thing to do is work on stimulating it until you reach the point of no return! And voila…say hello to prostate assisted ejaculation!
Experiment And Ejaculate
When it comes to finding pleasure, it's all in your hands!
Now that you have some ideas of what to do to achieve hands-free ejaculation, you now have the power to give yourself the pleasure you deserve!
Apart from these, you can always explore other new and safe ways to achieve hands-free sexual gratification and satisfaction!
